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D2 Sunday, December 10. 1995 TEMPO The Cincinnati Enquirer own job and start marketing your skills. A burst of physical power helps you on the road to fitness. Let a partner or lover make the first overture now. Money comes when you accept how deserving you are.

VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22). You seek a challenge that will excite your passions. Opportunities are right in front of you.

Younger friends or relatives offer wise insights don't get mad at their bluntness. Return a long overdue phone call or invitation. LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 23).

Use your charm even though others have crossed over the line of propriety. A loved one needs attention even though he or she appears self-sufficient. Deal with fitness, health, sports and recreations. you'll gain from this knowledge. Check up on investments.

CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19). Do one thing at a time. Something you read has an impact on your finances.

Let a new love have time to himself or herself back off. Trips lead to jobs or surprise invitations. Be consistent with friends it pays off. AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb.

18). No matter what companions say you know, your intuition is right. Seize an opportunity even if you must do work on spec. A run-in with authorities leads to romance. Consult an ex about a personal matter.

PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20). Achievements will be recognized make sure others know what you are doing. Take care of minor home prob lems or they worsen. Reconciliations with your family make this a week to think about the future.

TODAY'S BIRTHDAY (Dec. 10). Extravagant good luck, health and remarkable creativity highlight the year. Start a new business there are financial and emotional benefits. If you have felt trapped, a way to be free appears.

Follow a dream you had 10 years ago. In January, a check arrives. February brings new love. Reunions in April and weddings in August are perfect. Your luckiest month is September.

Joyce Jillson For a personalized horoscope, lucky numbers and money and love advice, call 1-900-903-4848. Calls: $1 a minute (must be made from touch-tone phone.) received a lovely poem that contained some excellent advice for parents. I have applied it to my relationship with my children. It strengthened our bond, and we became best friends. You might find it appropriate for your column.

The author is unknown, but perhaps someone in your vast reading audience will know who wrote it. JOHN ZURSTADT, SEATTLE WHAT SHALL WE GIVE THE CHILDREN? What shall we give the children? Christmas is almost here. Toys and games and playthings, As we do every year? Yes, for the magic of toy land Is part of the Yuletide lore To gladden the heart of childhood, But I shall give something more. I shall give them patience, A more sympathetic ear, A little more time for laughter, HOROSCOPE ARIES (March 21-April 19). Rushing into any activity drives away self-doubt and confusion.

Untimely disclosures threaten a relationship permanently. Deliver on a promise. Mask motives when dealing with savvy or unreliable busi-nesspeople. TAURUS (April 20-May 20). Nonstop working isn't necessary business or emotional strategies are! Allow yourself time to think over a question.

Hurry only when you are selling, not buying. A prudent lover is not a cheapskate. Listen to your intuition. GEMINI (May 21 -June 21). Recognize the merits of a competitor only then can you beat him or her.

A romance takes off if you let it. Ask yourself when you are going to put on the breaks. Neighbors offer help with no secret obligations. CANCER (June 22-July 22). Others are blaming you for something really out of your control.

New holistic ideas help you. Use a moderate amount of money to start a new business. Someone who was once rejected comes back with a positive attitude. LEO (July 23-Aug. 22).

Create your BARGAIN MATINEES UNTIL 6 PM CONTINUOUS SHOWS DAILY LATE SHOWS FRIDAY SATURDAY NO PASSES ACCEPTED ABBY VAN BUREN Garbologist's wife proud of profession DEAR ABBY: I have seen letters in your column from people who are ashamed to disclose their occupations. I have never been ashamed to say that I am married to a garbage collector. My husband calls himself the "Southern Lehigh Garbologist" and his attitude toward his work has received positive feedback from the community. When he had to raise his rates, he wrote his customers letters explaining why. His letters made the local newspaper at least three times, and one of them was featured in an evening class at a local university.

(It was a course called "How to Win Friends and Influence People," instructing business-people how to sell themselves positively to their customers.) I have always worked by his side by running the office. The garbage business has provided us with a decent living, not to mention some of the "perks' that come in the form of "your trash is my cash" items. I'd be proud to have you use my name, or sign me "The Contented Wife of Garbologist Steve Tegyi." SHIRLEY TEGYI, COOPERSBURG, PA. DEAR SHIRLEY: Attitude is everything, and you and your "Southern Lehigh Garbologist" are shining examples of it. May you have continued success.

DEAR ABBY: Eight years ago, when my first child was born, I SCORPIO (Oct. 24-Nov. 21). Others dangle offers that are unrealistic. Develop a childhood talent there are financial and social rewards.

Force yourself out into a new environment. Be direct about a relationship problem. SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21).

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I shall take time to teach them The joy of doing some task. Ill try to find time to answer More of the questions they ask. Time to read books together, And take long walks in the sun. Time for a bedtime story, After the day is done. I shall give these to my children, Weaving a closer tie.

Knitting our lives together With gifts that money can't buy. DEAR JOHN: In keeping with the holiday spirit, perhaps parents could also give their children lessons in acceptance of others who are different in some way, as well as lessons in charity. Help them select a toy for a less fortunate child, or bake cookies for a needy family. Help them learn about children from another culture. Let your imagination soar and theirs, too.

Write to Dear Abby at P. 0. 69440, Los Angeles, 90069 lies and obtaining all the benefits cosmetic surgery could give! Date younger women? You bet. They haven't been around long enough to really screw up their lives like older women! DAN, BLUE ASH DEAR DAN: The fact that you are back in the dating scene is commendable, especially considering the manner in which your marriage ended. I wrote several months back on why younger women enjoy dating older men.

Older men are safer, more mature, stable and have learned how to treat a woman with respect. Please allow your partner to experience many of the same aspects of life that you already have. Don't attempt to always warn her about situations or help her to avoid them. DEAR DATING DOCTOR: I guess that my desire for a promotion is nothing more than a manifestation of my middle-age crises. KIMBERLY THOMPSON, CINCINNATI DEAR KIMBERLY: Touche.

Something tells me you'll get that promotion. DEAR DATING DOCTOR: Your column on midlife crisis was right on the money. You described the state of my life for the past two years. It was difficult reading about myself in print, but when the shoe fits, I'll wear it! STEVEN MADEIRA DEAR STEVEN: Thanks for the letter, but more importantly, it's never too late to correct a mistake. If your relationship is salvageable, give it a shot.

David D. Coleman is director of student activities at Xavier University. "Dating Doctor" appears Sunday in Tempo. Send questions to The Cincinnati Enquirer, Tempo, 312 Elm Cincinnati 45202; fax; 768-8330. LIST "GRIPPING ENTERTAINMENT!" DAVID COLEMAN THE DATING DOCTOR Midlife crisis often becomes affair of heart DEAR DATING DOCTOR: I would like to elaborate on your recent column concerning women in midlife crisis.

You indicated that women "look to change themselves." Having been married to a woman who could not deal with the crisis, my ex found happiness in getting a breastenlargement, tummy tuck and face lift. I reluctantly agreed to this transformation only to discover that these "modifications" were done in anticipation of her new life without me. It is true that my current relationship is with a woman significantly younger than myself (48 vs. 24). However, I do not consider her a trophy, as you indicated in your column.

She is a fine, educated, personable woman who takes fond interest in me and my children. Am I to be criticized for dating a younger woman? Is she to be scorned for dating an older man? From the time my marriage broke up in 1990 (my 40-year-old wife had an affair with a 25-year-old), I haven't met any mid-40s women who interested me or who showed any interest in me. Maybe the reason is that they too have had a midlife crisis a crisis that they felt could have been mastered by having an affair, leaving their husbands, breaking up their fami YOU CAN GET TICKETS 3MSYWAYS! 1. Call m. at (513) 241-7469 2.

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